“What kind of person are you looking for?” We have asked this question to many people time and time again and the same type of answers is given: “I want someone who makes me feel good.” “I want someone who can make me laugh.” “I want someone who treats me with respect.” “I want someone who is kind and generous.” One simple question can evoke many of the same answers and often times those are exactly what we hear.
The truth is that each one of these answers has something to do with a personality trait that someone is looking for.
We tend to spend a lot of time working on our physical characteristics but very little on our personalities.
Overwhelmingly it is our personalities that cause us to fall in love.
Building your personality is a lot like building muscle mass.
You have to spend time developing your personality or you will lose the progress you’ve gained.
We tend to overlook our internal self and substitute our lack of personality with an over abundance of external.
When we take the time to build our personalities it’s the same as fixing the crack in the foundation.
There are several ways to build your personality but for the sake of this article we’re going to specifically focus on how to develop your personality to enrich your dating life.
If you’re passionate about something then you want to be able to share that part of your personality.
You MUST take your passions and let them display your personality.
They just want to know that you’re passionate about SOMETHING. What are you passionate about? Personality Development Exercise: Take 5 minutes right now and write down 5 things that you are passionate about.
It means that being funny displays your personality.
When you’re laughing and truly enjoying yourself, it is the ultimate display of your personality.
Personality Development Exercise: Take 5 minutes and write 5 things, shows, movies or jokes that you think are funny.
This behavior is not only destructive to their own personality but it is also destructive to their potential partner.
In the case of building your personality, you want to be authentic with whom you are down to the core.
Personality Development Exercise: List a time that you faked an alternate personality or lied to impress a potential partner.
What were your motivations for lying? Building your personality through dating is a process in which you become your authentic self.
Through dating you can build your personality by displaying these characteristics at appropriate times.
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